As you look to create a magical and memorable day for you and your loved ones, in my opinion, there are a few wedding traditions to leave behind. Make your day unique and all about you! Forget about what is “supposed” to be done, or what everyone else has done, and do something for you. When it comes to planning your wedding, you will be taking tons of time deciding what to do. As a wedding photographer, I have seen so many fun ways couples create a modern wedding, and I’ve got a firsthand look at how incredible their day has been!
Wedding Traditions To Leave Behind
Here are a few wedding traditions to leave behind as you plan a unique and memorable day!
Bouquet & Garter Toss
It is uncomfortable for us as the audience to watch a man go under the dress of his partner, right?! I’ve heard single people saying that they don’t like being singled out during this part of the wedding, too! I had one of my couples hand out flowers to each single person so that no one felt left out. It was so thoughtful and such a great way to involve everyone!
Wedding Favors
Unless you have a bougie photo booth, like the one I offer, or a late-night snack the guests can take to-go, I think this is one thing you can save some money on!
Matching Wedding Party Attire
It’s all about letting everyone be unique and showcase their personality! Plus, having variety in the wedding attire means really cool-looking photos. This applies to men and women!
Regular Escort Card Tables
It’s all about big signs and statement pieces for the reception. This is a key point where you can show off part of your love story–where you met, something that bonded you as a couple, etc. Make it something fun and memorable for everyone!
Only Getting Married At A Banquet Hall
Why go for something that everyone has done?! Unique venues are taking center stage now. Think – a cool space like a museum of fine arts or a natural science museum, or a gorgeous field. Mix it up for some serious fun!
Diamond Rings
While diamonds will always be timeless, don’t be afraid to go against the grain. From lab-grown diamonds to sapphires and rubies – it’s all about what you love! Find something that you love and that is special to you!
Hopefully this list of wedding traditions to leave behind inspires you to dream up a day that is all about what you want! Enjoy every moment of planning your special day, and don’t forget to have fun!
Can You Think Of Any Other Wedding Traditions To Leave Behind?!
Feel free to make your own choice as you plan your wedding day. Whatever that may be! Decide what wedding traditions to leave behind, and have fun with everything else! I love working with unique couples who are prioritizing a day they want!
I absolutely loved this article! Your insights into modernizing wedding traditions are so refreshing and practical. The idea of skipping the bouquet and garter toss for more inclusive alternatives is brilliant. Your perspective truly encourages couples to make their day uniquely theirs. Thank you for sharing these wonderful ideas and for capturing such beautiful moments as a wedding photographer!